”THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. it may save a life.) Reblog this!
It seems that alot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such a
situation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world. THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG…
FYI - Through a rapist’s eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:
1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.
They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.
2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.
3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.
4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.
5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.
6] Number three is public restrooms.
7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.
8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.
9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.
10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.
POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:
1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk:
can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.
2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would
not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.
3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.
4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and
armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.
5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our
instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.
6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using
much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.
7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel
little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.
FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….
I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be some, where you will go “hmm I must remember that” After reading forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.
1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.
2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or
purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!
3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.
4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.
5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be
hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .
b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).
7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!
8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.
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Now, class, this is an example of EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION.
Facts are that abortions cannot occur past the 20-22 week mark. The baby in this photo is clearly not a fetus. It’s a healthy, close to full term baby. Last time I checked, you don’t absorption full term fetuses. They could have used a photo of an actual fetus but instead they used the photo of an already born baby to try and make others feel guilty.
Emotional manipulation is done when there are NO OTHER tactics available. It’s pretty much the lowest of the low. You only stoop that far when you have no valid arguments.
Your missing the part where that baby was a fetus , if it was just born, people like you don’t think it is a person until it passes through the vagina. Actually abotions can be done up to 24 weeks. And about 15 weeks ago people like you thought it was ok to slaughter that baby. Yes this image elicits emotion because when you abort a fetus you abort a baby.
If you want to talk about emotional manipulation, Lets talk about how pro-choicers often use rape victims and rare complications deadly complications to push their point when less than 2% of abortions are from those situations and 98% of abortions are for the convenience of the mother weather it be financial reasons or just because they don’t want to. Also the fact that women have 20+ options of birth control and other ways of having intercourse other than vaginal intercourse. Plus, the top 3 reasons for abortion can be solved with practical solutions and charities and volunteering.
Lets talk about how pro-choicers claim to be pro choice, but only talk about and offer on their websites ways to get abortions and have no options for keeping the baby . The top pro-choice sites have nothing on their site that tells women or give them links to options for other choices.
Lets talk about how often pro-choicers call fetuses a clump of cells, , a parasite , and other negative and dehumanizing names that either are twisted to fit or don’t fit at all.
Come on lets talk about it. You probably don’t. But god forbid a pro life person shows a picture of a fully developed baby and makes people realize that the fetus they abort is the same individual that would born and that its life is not defined by its ability to be like a fully developed baby. God forbid people don’t want babies to die.
Ah, it went right over your head.
Most pro-choice are giving advice on abortions because that’s what we are asked for. Pro-choice means pro-you do what’s right for you. Want to have a baby? Go right ahead. Want an abortion and you haven’t passed the the limit? Go right ahead. This blog mainly focused on abortions because there is a stigma against abortions, NOT pregnancy. That’s blatantly obvious.
Medical terms and scientific descriptions are offensive? Oh no. What ever will we do? :( Considering that all people are clumps of cells, I’m over it. A fetus doesn’t feel pain nor have brain activity until about twenty six weeks. So the life of a non-feeling, non-thinking clump of cells to a clump of cells that does? I don’t think so.
Twenty types of birth control? Obviously all birth control is effective. I mean, they totally cannot fail at all, especially when combined with other medications. Seriously. Did I need to tell you that birth control isn’t 100% effective?
Oh no, how dare a pregnant person not have the financial means or even the mental health to raise a baby. It’s logical that we force them to spend the time and money they don’t have to raise a baby they don’t want because some creep is a little too interested in what’s happening in their uterus.
People having sex for pleasure? Ugh, get out. It’s obviously the 1800s, when people can only have sex to produce offspring. I say we grab our pitchforks and start a mob. That will teach them to have sex.
Babies are dying? Right. What are you doing about the 2.6 million children that die every year due to hunger? The unarmed black children getting shot for merely existing? Oh, you’re fighting for the non-sentient , can’t feel or have no brain activity humans. While those sentient ,actually feeling human beings die every single year. How noble of you.
Lastly, the reason why pro-choicers bring up rape victims and deadly illnesses is because a pro-lifer’s love affair with the fetus prevents them to even think like a well functioning member of society. They were raped? Well, the fetus cannot pay for its father’s son/The father has a say. Deadly illness? Honourable to die preserving another life. Oh yes, lovely morals there.
Parenthood and pregnancy are choices. Its not for everyone. Ignoring an actual human being in favour of their fetus (that you won’t support or take care of) isn’t awesome. It’s pathetic and shitty. End your disturbing love affair with the fetus and help the millions of people in need that are living.
Thank you for this absolutely riveting and totally not repetitive argument that have never been said before. I mean, your points were so valid. Really.